Transforming your boring locks to a beautiful pastel hue is not an easy task. However, if you are committed to the color you want it isn't impossible. The information I will give you in this post could also be applied to other pastel colors such as lilac and peach.
I have been coloring my hair from a very young age and I am by no means a professional. I home color my hair very often because professionals aren't often willing to risk damaging your hair and ruining their reputation. Hair is easily damaged when going lighter, especially when you have naturally dark hair like myself. So please be advised, if you are going to follow my steps... No matter what, your hair is always going to get a little less healthy in the process. Post coloring, I would advise using a lot of conditioning treatments and maybe a trip to the hair dressers for a trim so your hair can grow back more healthily.
Step 1)
If your hair is already very light blonde you can skip this step. If your hair is dark then you are going to need to get yourself to Sally's or another local beauty supplier where you can pick up a sachet of my favorite 'Freeze Ice Lites Hi Lift Powder Lightner'. This is pretty much the same as any other powder lightener except it contains a silverising toner to help counteract the brassy/yellow tones that bleaching hair brings.
Step 2)
You will need to buy a creme developer to mix with the powder, I would recommend buying a large bottle of 30% if your hair is quite dark. I usually just buy the cheapest one Sally's has and it does the trick. The higher the developer the quicker it will lighten. Also, the higher you go the more damaging it can be so be sure to ask the supplier their advice too as it will depend on your natural shade.
This might sound obvious but you will need to get a pair of gloves to ensure the bleach doesn't burn your hands! Also get a mixing bowl and brush to help you apply the mixture to the hair. You might want to get somebody to help you check it is all over and even, so you don't get patches of brown hair you have missed. The mixture dries quickly so get a plastic bag and place it over your hair to lock in the heat. Keep checking your hair to keep an eye on the color, wash it off as soon as desired color is achieved.
You could get a cape or towel to protect your clothes too. I know it sounds like a lot of effort but it will be worth the money and time in the end.
You may need to bleach your hair more than once to achieve the light blonde you need for pastel hues. Please remember the health of your hair, I recently bleached my hair too many times in one day when I was being impatient but it wasn't worth it as I lost a lot of length. If your hair is looking like it needs a break, then please do so and condition it in between bleaching sessions. Condition, condition, condition! It is very important.
(Dumb Blonde Bed Head hair conditioner by TIGI)
Step 3)
Your hair may still have some brassy/yellow tones after bleaching is complete. If so get some 'Colour Restore Iced Platinum Toner' from Boots. If you don't live in the UK, any other toner that removes brassy/yellow tones will do the trick too! A quick search on google should leave you with plenty of choices. Leave it on overnight if you really want results. It might go gray or purple if you leave it on TOO long though, I don't mind this but I know some people do so be prepared.
Step 4)
Choose the colour you want! I personally wouldn't get a pastel colour that was premixed, I would get a pink such as 'Flamingo Pink' or 'Carnation Pink' from Directions and water the mixture down using a white colored conditioner. This means you get more colour for your money, once the colour looks a lovely pale pink in the mixing bowl it is time to apply the mixture. Leave it on your head for as long as you like, I usually leave mine on for about 30 minutes to an hour.
If you simply can't be bothered to water down your own pink then you can buy a lot of pinks that are already a lovely pastel color. The ones I have tried and love are 'Pastel Pink' from Directions and 'Candy Floss' from Crazy Colours.
Now you should have fantastic pastel hair! Congratulations. Now for maintaining that beautiful mane...
- CONDITION IT, a lot. Get some hot oil treatments, they work amazingly! My favorite is Miracle Growth Oil by a brand called 'African Pride' it is super amazing for fixing burnt ends, it smells delicious too. Click Here to be directed to their website.
- Pastel colors wash out very very quickly. Avoid having to color it often by pouring some of the pink mixture into your regular conditioner. If you apply it to your hair for even 5 minutes each time you shower, this will help to restore some of the color helping you save time and money.
- Get yourself a color friendly shampoo and conditioner set to stop the color washing out. For example, Alberto VO5 make one called 'Cherish my colour' that I would recommend.
- If you don't trim the burnt ends, your hair probably wont grow. If your ends are burnt, they are going to get worse with heat styling tools such as the hair dryer and straighter. As you brush your hair during blow drying, the ends will get caught in your hair brush and fall off.
- Personally I can't stop using my hot styling tools, if you're like me you will need to get a heat defense spray.
- Try not to be impatient when bleaching, if it wont go white or light blonde straight away then wait a while. Try not to bleach it too many times in a day or a week, it will be really bad condition and the color wont look nice. Good things come to those who wait!
- Bleach bathing your hair is another method of lightening with minimal damage. Google 'Bleach Bathing' and there will be plenty of advice. This involves mixing shampoo with a small amount of powder/developer to gradually lift the hair color. When I first realized this was an option, I started coloring my hair a lot more often as it is a lot less risky.
- REMEMBER: Do not color your hair if you have somewhere important to be that week. That way if you make a mess you have time to seek the help of a professional before your event.